Blog - Learning and Loving Yourself
- Realit 2 Relate
- Mar 16, 2023
- 3 min read
Updated: Nov 15
We all have a time in our lives when we feel down and have nothing else to do, and moments like questioning ourselves happen. Want to know what to do? Let's break down the wall of gloominess into goodness. First, let's take a deep BREATHE IN AND BREATHE OUT while you read this and have a say to yourself like, YES! I CAN DO IT! And second, we must know what interests us; don't worry if you haven't found it yet; it's NOT TOO LATE FOR ANYTHING. So, after that, we must try to find a way to advance it. Remember, everyone is skilled in their own way; it's okay to have flaws in life. Anything we do will help us to build a future for ourselves. Don't worry; even if it takes time, I CAN DO IT! YOU CAN DO IT! WE CAN DO IT!

So what are you waiting for? Go ahead and do what you love: love, live, and laugh! Was there a time in your life when you expected something or someone to think the same thing you were thinking? Maybe or maybe not. Listen, one should follow their heart with the help of their mind since your heart is the first one to know if you like something or someone. One should open up their eyes, heart, and mind and do the things they like. Do not expect the same thing from different people. All people are unique. "Time will go on, but the opportunity doesn't wait," means time may find its way of fulfilling its duty, but one must look forward to opportunities. Do not let the fear get in the way. Don't worry about how things might turn their way.
So what are you waiting for? Go ahead and try out the things your heart beats for...it's YOUR LIFE AFTER ALL! Have you ever felt like you wanted to show and burst out and do things that you wanted to do but were scared to show because you were too sensitive about what others 'opinionated' opinions mattered? Or you are too hyped up but can't get back down with all this hyper? Well, it's time to close all those matters! First off, one shouldn't be ashamed or have to be quiet about showing others who you truly are, even if it's keeping silent or being an all-hyped-up person. All that matters is that you be true to yourself because that's what defines you, but at the same time, you should keep others' opinions in mind as long as it does good for both you and others.
Hope this helps; all you have to do is keep going and encourage yourself to do better, and you will get there. Everyone has a moment where they want to feel what actually "fulfilling the dreams" means to them. It could be anything that makes them happy. Now the real question is do you 'make it' or 'get it'? There is a difference between 'make it 'and 'get it.' Make it mean when you do something by your own will and hard 'work, while 'get it' means getting the feeling of happiness when others are happy, well, of course, if that makes you happy too. Now finally we'll just 'do it' and go after the things that make you feel that way.
What does it mean to “learn yourself”?
Learning yourself means understanding your emotions, habits, values, strengths, and weaknesses. It’s becoming aware of who you truly are beyond external expectations.
Why is self-love important for personal growth?
Self-love builds confidence, emotional resilience, and a healthier mindset. When you love yourself, you make better decisions, avoid toxic patterns, and create a more fulfilling life.
How can I start the journey of self-love?
Begin with small steps: accept your emotions, practice self-care, set boundaries, observe your thoughts, journal regularly, and celebrate your progress.
Is self-love the same as self-care?
Not exactly. Self-care involves actions like rest, exercise, and skincare. Self-love is deeper—it’s about how you talk to yourself, view yourself, and treat yourself emotionally.
Why do people struggle to love themselves?
Reasons vary—past trauma, comparison, societal pressure, low self-esteem, or fear of judgment. However, self-love can always be rebuilt with patience and practice.
How long does the process of self-love take?
It’s an ongoing journey. Some changes happen quickly, while deeper transformation takes time. Consistency matters more than speed.
Everyone has a creative way of expressing their thoughts in many different ways, from nothing to something convincing the readers more concisely. Anyone can express their creativity through skills such as writing or presenting it in many fields. All must have the same innovation unless it's plagiarism. Imaginatively putting your skills to use is a task that has to be precise. There is always a secret behind a creative recipe.
One should have the enthusiasm to try out new things. So basically, it means GO FOR IT! Make sure to always try learning and loving yourself.
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